看过一句话是这样说的，把年轻过的认真，找一个爱的人结婚是为了发自肺腑的开心，而不是完成一个任务，这或许是结婚的意义权衡利弊之后作出的取舍没什么不好。
但如果爱情也出于此那也就意味着，将来有一天他重新权衡利弊之后，你很有可能就是被舍弃的那一个好的爱情应当是内心最坚定的选择。
就是你，而不是相比之下你还可以电视剧很好看，和喜欢的人一起看，它会更好看，但是和不喜欢的人一起看，它就没办法那么好看了。
就是这样浅显的道理感情不应该是孤注一掷的豪赌，应该是温暖岁月里的细水长流，不是每个人都必须要选择婚姻，如果有一天要选择婚姻，一定是因为满分的欢喜和合适，而不是将就凑合没有该结婚的年龄。
只有能够更幸福的选择昨天见证了一场求婚，女主从开始到结束哭的泣不成声，相信眼泪里包含了太多的心酸，感动，幸福和一路走来的不易。
回过神来再看看自己，刚过完30岁的生日，这么多年来自己的感情路似乎从来没有平坦过，兜兜转转依旧是单身贵族中的一员，经历了这么多，越来越害怕把自己交付于他人，如若有人也愿为我费尽心思，绞尽脑汁来这么一场惊喜，我想我依然会用仅有的勇气选择义无反顾！既然错过一次，就不会再选择去将就。
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